by dailykongfidence
Dress | Earrings | Heels

Last weekend I had the honor of hosting my first Galentine’s Day brunch with The Collective Affair and STARE Cosmetics. It was everything I could have hoped for from delicious food, engaging conversations about beauty, business, and supporting women, as well as connecting with old friends and new friends.

Since this was my first Galentine’s brunch, I wanted to share some tips on how to set the perfect blogger party.

1. Location – Salt Creek Grille, Dana Point, CA

We chose the most gorgeous restaurant, Salt Creek Grille for this blogger brunch. I am all for home cooked meals, but when hosting a party for over 50 guests, do yourself a favor and go to a restaurant. Not only is the location incredible for brunch, date night, and even upcoming Valentine’s Day dinner, the food is absolutely delicious AND they accommodate large parties! We feasted, and I mean feasted, on appetizers such as shrimp ceviche, veggie cups, charcuterie board, as well as ahi sliders and ahi poke. And if that wasn’t enough, we had breakfast options from eggs benedict, burgers, breakfast burritos, and Monte Cristos. And of course what’s a Galentine’s without some sweets? Salt Creek Grille offers the most amazing selection of beignets, carrot cake, and chocolate bites. It is such a lovely restaurant with a perfect blend of ambiance, location, and savory food!

@missmisschelle, @shopbexo, @mariseeezy

2. Theme – Beauty and Business

When you gather a bunch of strong, inspiring, entrepreneurial women together what do you want to talk about? Beauty and business! The Collective Affair and STARE Cosmetics have been great partners of mine that stand for women empowerment (both are female owned), wellness, and overall positivity. You can imagine we had a lot to discuss from clean makeup, beauty and wellness, and the business of social media. We started out the brunch with a quick Q&A with Coleen Janeway, the Global Brand Advisor for STARE Cosmetics.

Trying on the latest glosses from STARE Cosmetics
Ferial Moloo of The Collective Affair | Sri Divel of Salt Creek Grille
Coleen Janeway, Sri Divel, Ferial Moloo, Christine Kong, Alexandra Potora, Amy Chang

STARE Cosmetics is a woman-owned brand that focuses on clean beauty developed by estheticians. They use high quality ingredients that don’t exacerbate skin conditions to beautifully enhance all skin types. The biggest takeaway from Coleen was that ingredients matter and using less fillers and harmful chemicals will keep skin glowing. The other great advice Coleen offered was when working with influencers, brands like STARE look for authenticity and genuine connections between influencer and followers and influencer and brand. So when you are deciding to work with brands, make sure they are in line with your vision and what you are truly passionate about.

Coleen Janeway of @SkinFoodBodyLove

3. Inspiration – Learning from Each Other

What I love most about these type of gatherings is learning from each other. I think everyone has something to offer and something to gain. I had two incredible friends of mine that I respect and love share the afternoon with me enlightening us with their experience and wisdom. Amy Chang of @bondenavant is a beauty and skincare blogger that focuses on “good for you beauty” mixing 80% clean, green beauty with a bit of must-haves.

Her key takeaways as a new mommy and growing business on Instagram, YouTube, and most recently TikTok were on “balance” and focusing on content your audience craves. Finding balance is difficult if not actually unattainable so instead of balance, Amy suggests prioritizing the things that bring you the most joy and spending more time on those. We took an unexpected turn to talk about Tiktok and how she feels it is an overall easier platform to grow followers (she grew to 35K followers in about a month!) and has a more supportive community that is not based on unexplainable algorithms like some platforms we know (ehem).

Amy Chang of @Bondenavant

We moved from Amy, the clean beauty expert, to Alexandra Potora @alexandrapotora who I consider a good friend but also expert in all things skincare and social media related. We talked about goals and Alex uses the 50/30/20 rule to help prioritize. 50% of time should be spent on on lifetime goals that will move your forward, 30% on things that will afffect you in the next two years, and 20% on things that will help you achieve your goals over the next 90 days to 6 months (aka short term goals). I’m pretty sure most of us spend the most time on short term goals which is totally backwards! Prioritize the long term play not the short term minute details. Alex’s last words of wisdom to everyone was to “know your worth.” By lowering your worth, you are only hurting yourself and others in the industry. As long as you can back up your value, brands will understand, appreciate and respect that. WORD.

Alexandra Potora of @AlexandraPotora

4. Gifts – Amazing Goodie Bags

What is a party without incredible gift bags?! A huge thank you to all of our partners and sponsors who gifted fabulous products for us to try. These are all brands that are apart of my daily life and ones that I genuinely believe in their products.

STARE Cosmetics – Exfoliating Lip Treatment, Ultimate Lip Liner (“Crumb Cake”), Essential Wear Lipstick (“Rhonda’s Kiss”), and Botanical Hydration Face Mist. I’ve been a huge fan of STARE since discovering them last year. They are truly about good, clean ingredients to help the skin glow through makeup.

Skinesquebrightening sheet masks. Skineque is a Korean, clean beauty brand which has many amazing products. I use their Enzyme Exfoliating Wash daily as well as the Prep Sheet Masks which are the perfect hydration and primer for your daily makeup.

Clé CosmeticsMulti cream. Another clean brand that makes incredible products. This multi cream is super hydrating and I also love the CCC Cream for daily wear.

Harmony ProteinsBeauty Collagen Water and Beauty Energy Collagen Boost. Easy to use packets for on-the-go collagen and added beauty benefits that tastes great.

Gorjanaheart necklace. I’ve been a fan of Gorjana pieces for years. They are perfect for everyday wear and I love them to layer together. My favorite pieces I am wearing nonstop these days are this necklace and these earrings. Tip: Gorjana pieces shouldn’t discolor and it they do, take it back and they will clean them for you or give you a new piece!

Julie Mollolipstick key chain pouch. She makes fun, vibrant pouches that can double as make up bags, pouches, and even clutches. They also make the perfect gifts too.

PJ Salvage – adorable valentine’s day socks. PJ Salvage is a local Orange County brand that makes the most comfiest everyday pieces. They also make sleepwear as well as mommy and me pieces.

Beauty Bar Chocolatesweet treats for glowing skin. Who doesn’t love chocolate that also has added beauty benefits? The perfect treat for any occasion!

I truly had an amazing time hosting this wonderful Galentine’s Day brunch and it was not only fun, but so inspiring! I started the brunch out by saying it was my goal that everyone walked out feeling inspired with something new – a new friend, a new contact, or a new idea, and based on the overwhelming feedback I received, it looks like my goal was achieved!

@maggietravelfashion, @n_g_le, @lanitonnu, @kimicoyo
@bykettelyn + @elisamar
@maggietravelfashion + @lindseycarlene
@everythingevelyne, @cathycordas, @skinfoodbodylove
@chelsiee.paige, @shopbexo, @charmainejoiecouture
@kellycastillo + @bethanymichaels
@maggietravelfashion, @n_g_le, @stylebeacon
@itsestherlane, chelsiee.paige, @cheridan.taylor

Thank you to everyone that came out to support and learn, and to The Collective Affair, STARE Cosmetics, Salt Creek Grille, and all of our goodie bag sponsors for making this event such a success!

Photos by Katie Stuart Photography and Louise at Mic Mac Agency.

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Marisa February 15, 2020 - 10:08 am

Such a fun and beautiful event, Christine! I loved reading your blog!

dailykongfidence February 19, 2020 - 11:32 am

Thanks Marisa! It was such a wonderful event and I loved hosting it!

Jennifer February 15, 2020 - 11:53 pm

Really cool event! It’s amazing to see lots of empowering and supportive women together. 🙂

dailykongfidence February 19, 2020 - 11:36 am

Yes, I am all about inspiring women and learning from each other!

Marie Tang February 17, 2020 - 11:33 am

Such a beautiful even Christine! The only thing I wish was that I could’ve been part of this. I haven’t tried Stare cosmetics yet but plan to try a gloss. I love trying new products and brands. You look confident and beautiful and everything a woman boss should be

dailykongfidence February 19, 2020 - 11:40 am

I love that they are natural and focus on skincare and don’t use bad ingredients. I wish you could’ve come too!

Elizabeth Tran February 17, 2020 - 4:24 pm

Looks like so much fun <3 🙂 Hope you ladies had an amazing time!

XO, Elizabeth T.

dailykongfidence February 19, 2020 - 11:41 am

Thanks babe! Next time we’ll do it in LA again!

Sophie Atieno February 18, 2020 - 4:16 pm

Oh but your dress! My goodness you look so great. Your outfit is just so amazing. Great pictures there.

dailykongfidence February 19, 2020 - 11:42 am

Thank you so much Sophie! This is a fun and flirty dress for spring and perfect for this fab brunch!

Maria February 19, 2020 - 5:20 pm

Congratulations! This event looks so fabulous. Beautiful photography, lovely 🙂

Jessica February 19, 2020 - 9:03 pm

This looks so much fun!

Jessica |

Radi February 20, 2020 - 1:42 am

This is amazing! More gatherings like these should be made. It’s fun, yet inspirational.

Wendee Isaacs February 20, 2020 - 8:33 am

Looks like you gals had an awesome time together
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Wonder Cottage

dailykongfidence February 20, 2020 - 10:02 am

Thanks Wendee, we totally did. I definitely want to do another Galentine’s next year!

Reply February 20, 2020 - 8:39 am

It sounds like you had a lovely time! I love your dress, it’s such a gorgeous colour and print xo

Makeup Muddle

dailykongfidence February 20, 2020 - 10:03 am

Thank you! This dress is perfect for spring and love the colors too!

Julie Mollo February 24, 2020 - 12:24 pm

Such a beautiful event, looks like you all had a blast! So glad I could add a little sparkle and fun to the gift bags! YAY!

xoxo Julie Mollo

dailykongfidence February 28, 2020 - 10:55 am

Your mini clutches are the cutest. It’s a wonder why I have three of your full sized ones too! So fun and perfect for every occasion!

Jenelle February 27, 2020 - 12:24 am

Oh this looks so beautiful! You are making me want to host an event like this here. That is such a lovely way to get to know a brand and each other closer. It looked like a great day. Thank you for the inspo!
xx Jenelle |

Omaye May 16, 2020 - 7:19 am

What a beautiful and colourful event.
Making wish I was there.
And that outfit is amazing!


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