by dailykongfidence


Never let the things you WANT,
make you forget
the things you HAVE.

Living in a country full of abundance and a generation that is considerably blessed, it is easy to overlook the basic things we have and always yearn to have more. Growing up my parents were immigrants and they provided for us in the best way possible, but we didn’t have the luxury of vacations, Guess jeans, Acura Integras for our first cars, and even braces for our crooked teeth. We had enough, but we didn’t always have excess so we learned gratitude through missed opportunities and challenges. But you know what? I am thankful for what I didn’t have because the lessons I received from what I lacked was far greater than anything tangible or superficial I could have had.

Practicing gratitude in daily life is difficult because life in general is demanding. But I’ve noticed that being grateful for the small things in life make the bigger things in life not seem as bad. Additionally, gratitude, like a smile, is contagious. If you act gracious, you can quickly spread that positivity and appreciation to others.

So when a place like Café Gratitude serves up plates named “Peaceful,” “Open-Hearted,” “Inspired,” and “Fearless,” how you can you not smile and feel blessed as you order starting with the phrase “I am…[name the plate].” The concept of Café Gratitude is simple – local, organic, sustainable, and cooked with love. It is a place were people and food come together in a celebration of their enlightenment. Check out any of their California locations in Los Angeles, Downtown LA, San Diego, Venice, and Newport Beach and get your gratitude on.

Whatever mood you’re in, whatever negative thing that just happened, turn it around, be positive, and start practicing an attitude of gratitude!










Tank | HM similar styles here, here, and here
Jeans | Cello Jeans similar styles here, here, and here
Sunglasses | Westward Leaning (use code DAILYKONGFIDENCE at DITTO for a free month of designer sunnies) similar styles here, here, and here
Bracelet | Mejuri
Shoes | Roberto Durville similar styles here, here, here, and here
Bag | Valentino similar styles here, here, here, and here

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Adelina August 29, 2016 - 11:25 am

I am grateful for you and your post Christine! Growing up as an immigrant myself, I can relate to everything you shared! Will need to try out Cafe Gratitudes’ LA location soon! Thanks you for the beautiful post! xox, Adelina

dailykongfidence August 29, 2016 - 5:43 pm

I too am grateful to have you as a friend and inspiration in my life Adelina!

Christina Braccia August 29, 2016 - 1:35 pm

Christine, Do you ever not look chic? I mean seriously- you made a simple tank top look like the perfect top that I NEED in my life.

xo, Christina

dailykongfidence August 29, 2016 - 5:43 pm

You are so sweet Christina! I like the simple looks too and honestly this cami from H&M is one of my go-to pieces!

Raysa Garcia August 29, 2016 - 5:11 pm

You look absolutely stunning! Killer look babe.
Great post.
Xx, Raysa

dailykongfidence August 29, 2016 - 5:52 pm

Hi Raysa, thank you so much! Hope you are having a great week so far!

Jenn Hanft August 29, 2016 - 5:31 pm

Aw thank you so much for the beautiful post, Christine <3 The cafe looks so lovely, I'll have to visit whenever I'm in LA! I love the simple white top, ripped denim look. You're beautiful!

XO Jenn

dailykongfidence August 29, 2016 - 5:54 pm

Thank you Jenn, you definitely have to try it. It is amazing how good gluten free, vegan food can taste. =)

Kreshma August 29, 2016 - 5:32 pm

Was so moved by this post ❤️ I loved all your pictures and I feel so good after reading this post ♥️

dailykongfidence August 29, 2016 - 5:55 pm

Thank you Kreshma, that is one of the best compliments that I could have asked for. I am happy that this post left you feeling positive and hopefully grateful. xoxo.

Sister Tales August 29, 2016 - 7:49 pm

Our parents were immigrants too, and we grew up struggling a little bit as well but I wouldn’t have changed anything. My parents have come a LONG way since moving to the states 20 years ago and we can’t thank them enough for sacrificing their homeland so that we could have a better life here in the states. Very inspirational post.
xoxo, simona and indre

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 9:33 am

Aww, thanks for sharing about your upbringing too Simona and Indre. We definitely owe a lot to our parents who struggled and provided us with what we needed. I am grateful for how we grew up because without those experiences, we definitely wouldn’t have ended up here.

Sharon Wu of Style Lullaby August 29, 2016 - 11:46 pm

Such a beautiful post! Loving the photos as well. I definitely need to check out Cafe Gratitude soon. Sounds like a very inspiring and positive place to be. Thank you for the reminder to always be grateful for what we have. 🙂 Have a wonderful week, Christine! xo, sharon

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 9:33 am

Thanks Sharon! Yes, it is super yummy and healthy for you!

Aurelie | Surface85 August 30, 2016 - 2:49 am

Totally agree with you Christine! Gratitude is so important in life, I try to practise gratitude in a daily basis and it really help to keep a positive mind. I believe that struggles make us stronger too! This Cafe Gratitude is such a good idea and the food looks yummy!
You look gorgeous btw 🙂
Aurelie |

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 9:34 am

Thank you Aurelie! That’s amazing that you practice it in your daily life and continue to have a positive mentality. It definitely helps us in the long run and keeps us motivated!

Alice August 30, 2016 - 2:58 am

Very nice place for photos 🙂 You look amazing in this outfit, I love your jeans <3

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 9:35 am

Thank you Alice. Yes, the restaurant, and it’s sister resaurant, Gracias Madre are both so beautiful inside and their bar is unbelievable for photos!

Mandy Arisa August 30, 2016 - 6:04 am

This was such a positive piece and a great read Christine! Thanks for sharing and I adore the cute picture of you taking a flatlay picture hehe!

xx Mandy

Adriana Boho August 30, 2016 - 6:38 am Reply
emily August 30, 2016 - 8:04 am

Such a lovely post! This cafe sounds like a wonderful place, it is always great to be surrounded by positivity!
x Emily

Mariann Yip August 30, 2016 - 10:18 am

I am grateful for this article. Thank you so much for sharing Christine! I absolutely love the quote in the beginning and I can relate to you about growing up with parents as immigrants and not having everything I wanted. I love articles that are meaningful like this one 🙂


dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 7:06 pm

Thanks Mariann, your support always means a lot to me. We are definitely blessed and owe a lot to our parents.

Margot August 30, 2016 - 11:28 am

Love your text. You’re so true and simple. This place seems perfect!
I also love your outfits ! Perfect casual look ! Your high heels are so stunning !

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 7:12 pm

Thank you Margot. This place is definitely yummy and thoughtful!

Milica August 30, 2016 - 12:43 pm

Lovely post! Maybe we could follow each other on GFC and instagram @djonovic_milica? If yes, follow me and I follow back as soon as I see it.
Let me know with a comment on my Blog


dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 7:15 pm

Thank you Milica!

Melis August 30, 2016 - 12:46 pm

as always i love this post Christine! not only your look is amazing and perfect for the setting, the message is so true and it really resonated with me! being thankful is really the key to a happier life, and taking example from your parents is admirable. we should never forget what others are going through! amazing message and post as always !!

xx Melis

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 7:18 pm

Thank you Melis! Being grateful and positive is definitely a huge aspect of being happy with oneself. I am always inspired by others and grateful for the lessons that I learn from my experiences and from sharing with other people. I hope you have a wonderful week!

Kelsey Bang August 30, 2016 - 1:48 pm

what a fun place to eat! that green couch is awesome! great look!

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 7:18 pm

It truly is Kelsey! The interior of this place is insane! You have to go check it out!

Amy August 30, 2016 - 2:07 pm

Love this post! Always nice to be reminded to practice gratitude. And I LOVE Cafe Gratitude! Such a yummy spot.

xx, Amy

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 7:20 pm

Hi Amy, isn’t it the yummiest? Yes, gratitude should be practiced everyday until it becomes a habit!

sharon August 30, 2016 - 7:24 pm

This is a great post, Christine. I agree that being grateful for little things makes life a lot better.
That’s how try to approach things and it definitely improves your quality of life.

dailykongfidence August 30, 2016 - 7:25 pm

Hi Sharon, thank you for stopping by. Yes, gratitude and a positive attitude is the key to being happy! Hope you are having a great week so far!

Katrina Fernandez August 31, 2016 - 1:16 am

You look really great, hun! You perfectly flaunt your sexy body with that outfit. I love the outfit as well as your photos.

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xoxo, Katrina | Instagram: katrinaisha

dailykongfidence August 31, 2016 - 8:35 am

Thank you Katarina! Hope you are having an amazing week so far!

Sophie August 31, 2016 - 6:03 am

Ahh I am so so in love with the place! Wish I was living closer! The food looks incredible and the menu sounds like a dream come true. I love the minimal outfit you are wearing and the cami has the perfect cut – love a good v-neck!

Sophie xx

dailykongfidence August 31, 2016 - 8:40 am

Thank you Sophie! Yes this place and it’s sister restaurant, Gracias Madre, are both so gorgeous inside and yummy. The cami is from H&M and so affordable. I literally wear it all the time!

Katharine September 1, 2016 - 11:06 am

Heart and soul written article! I can imagine what you are thinking about and you are absolutely right my dear. Small things are more bigger than those big. Regarding your ootd it is perfect as you are too. I am here the first time and I like your feed. Great job sweetie.

dailykongfidence September 2, 2016 - 12:55 pm

Thank you Katharine for stopping by, it means a lot. And yes, being grateful for the big and little things just makes us positive and happier in general. I hope you have a wonderful long weekend!

Stayclassi September 4, 2016 - 3:24 am

Your look is so classy and gorgeous! I love it!
Have a nice day, cutie!

dailykongfidence September 4, 2016 - 7:42 pm

Thank you babe! Hope you had a great weekend!

Carmen September 10, 2016 - 12:52 am

This is such a great classy and casual look – I love how the heels make the whole ensemble so elegant 🙂 And this food looks delicious!
Have a great weekend <3
xx, Carmen –

dailykongfidence September 11, 2016 - 10:58 am

Thank you Carmen. I totally agree, heels definitely instantly elevate an outfit!


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